My parents are currently divorced within the last few months, but are still living together due to having finacial things sorted out before my mom is able to move out. My dad is buying the house from her and staying there. This infuriates me and saddens me. My home growing up a seemingly normal life, now is coming crashing down after realizing how screwed up their relationship was my whole life. 

Now, my mom is going to move out and he is going to stay at our house. A two-story house for one person. Because HE doesn't want to start over somewhere else. How selfish of him, make everyone else have to start over new. Not to mention the hurt and memories and life that I and my sister will now have to be reminded of when we go to visit. Envision my house empty and not what all my memories were there. Both happy and sad. I would much rather see a new family there and pass by as a memory. Not a constant pang of what was and what might have been.

Not to mention he has started dating a new woman while still living in the house with my mom still and sneaking off to spend time with her. Now I understand he is divorced and can do this, and any other time I would be almost happy for him. But he never had a relationship with my mom, nor my sister or I. But now he suddenly can take time for this new woman and spending time money and attention on some stranger. But does not seem to care for his own kids. I don't know what to feel anymore.