Anyone else have a significant other or spouse who acts like adhd isn’t a real thing? Like your just weird and using the label as an excuse to be lazy or overly emotional? Don’t get me wrong I love my husband but I feel as though after 13yrs of marriage he still can’t accept that I have adhd. One of our sons has it as well. He is almost 11 and was diagnosed at 5. For years my husband just thought we needed to discipline it out f our son. He finally realized it doesn’t work that way. So it seems as though he has finally accepted our son having adhd. But continues to make me feel invalid and as I’m making it up that I have had it my while life. I’m. It expecting a putty party from him or any help. Just him acknowledging it and maybe being more understanding would be nice.