Adopted adults Community Group
Adults who want to talk about adoption experiences. Also people who would like to make friends w/people with similar experiences.
Hey everyone,
I also was adopted,I am now 33 yearsof age. I had a hard time being adopted and still wonder why some families are even allowd to adopt. Well anyways,I was the only adopted child in my family ,my parents had a bioliogical son who is 6 years older then myself,they tryed to have another child but could not thats where I came into the picture. I was in foster care till 1 years of age and then placed with my adopted family. Thru out my adoption my parents always favored there bioligical son , he could do no wrong, and I could do no right. There bioligical son has nothing to do with me till this day. About 5 years ago I searched for my biological mother, I never found her, but I did end up meeting my biolicical brother,whom was also placed up for adoption.My parents didn' teven like the fact I found him. I just feel if people are goin to adopted they should love the child as there own! Even if they already have biolicical children or ever do have biolicical children, its not fare to us,it wasen't are fault we were placed up for adoption.Have any of you every experianced simuliar situations?
I also was adopted,I am now 33 yearsof age. I had a hard time being adopted and still wonder why some families are even allowd to adopt. Well anyways,I was the only adopted child in my family ,my parents had a bioliogical son who is 6 years older then myself,they tryed to have another child but could not thats where I came into the picture. I was in foster care till 1 years of age and then placed with my adopted family. Thru out my adoption my parents always favored there bioligical son , he could do no wrong, and I could do no right. There bioligical son has nothing to do with me till this day. About 5 years ago I searched for my biological mother, I never found her, but I did end up meeting my biolicical brother,whom was also placed up for adoption.My parents didn' teven like the fact I found him. I just feel if people are goin to adopted they should love the child as there own! Even if they already have biolicical children or ever do have biolicical children, its not fare to us,it wasen't are fault we were placed up for adoption.Have any of you every experianced simuliar situations?
tiffanyholtzclaw
I was adopted at age 14 and I can sort of relate to your story. Although my adoptive parents treat all of their children about the same, I always felt like they sort of favored their biological ones. It makes sense but it is a hard pill to swallow.
cyndazzle1967
I know how you feel first their is a hole inside me cause I don't know who I am and yes I was always treated different then my other sibling I could just feel it when you walked into the room I was the black sheep of the family I got into drus when igot older not until my 3os but they had no problem kicking me out when I was like 16 or 17. so they never understood my drug addiction im clean now 5 years so both my adopted parents died without talking to me after my adopted mom died my brother called me and said you were never our sister we never cared about you yes the truthcme out I always new but im glad he said it so I really know now I feel like my real mother did not want me that is why my life is so bad
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