Abusive Relationships Community Group
This group is for those that have been in abusive relationships, know someone who is in an abusive relationships, or is currently in one. It is ok if you are a male victim or a female victim. If you need to vent just let it out.
I started dating this guy a few months ago. He was great super sweet and loving, but has a temper and often will criticize me and how I look if I don’t wear a dress or skirt or “look preppy”. He says I can wear what I want but will complain about it if I do and then get upset when I get hurt bc of what he is saying. He often gets upset if I don’t answer the phone. Even if I text and say I can’t talk. He says I should pick up or call back and say I can’t talk. That would be respectful... what?
Back the the temper. He will get upset over the slightest thing.. and then scream and call me names (bitch, stupid bitch, fuck you, go fuck yourself, you name it). He will hit pillows, doors, his head and chest. Never me. Well twice now he has covered my mouth when he said I raised my voice. Bc he was scared the police would come. I have told him To stop, he apologizes and says he will stop and wants to change blah blah, but hasn’t. He will take the blame and make sure I know it and promise to change, but I have to help him and stop his anger.
this isn’t healthy, right?
http://www.loveisrespect.org/
You can also chat with someone on either of those websites or by texting LOVEIS to 22522 to get an idea of how to break up with him safely if you’re scared. If you don’t live with him you may still want to tell someone what’s been going on before you break up with him. If you’re scared for any reason you don’t want to go through that breakup alone.