Abusive Relationships Community Group
This group is for those that have been in abusive relationships, know someone who is in an abusive relationships, or is currently in one. It is ok if you are a male victim or a female victim. If you need to vent just let it out.
Hi I'm Phil I'm a male victim of Domestic Violence and Abuse.. There's an awful lot to my story but things came to a head last Wednesday night when my partner raged out at me yet again.. My youngest stepson called the Police again and she was arrested, whilst I had to go to A&E to get my nose glued after she bit into it and my thumb sorted after she managed to fracture it by bending it back. She's been raging out for around six months now.
Social Services were already involved due to the kids witnessing her attacks on me and now things have heated up. I've become the sole carer of my stepsons temporarily whilst this is all sorted out. She's on bail for a month and I'm under pressure from the Police and Social Services to press charges. The thing is, she's very mentally ill and I'm very much still in love with her. My head right now is mashed, to say the least.
I was in an abusive relationship, and it took two broken ribs and then a broken cheekbone for me to leave but at the time I still loved him. I was going to go back to him thinking he would change but now I realize he wouldn't have, it was the way he was. I left and am now with a loving guy.
Please see a counsellor, you shouldn't be dealing with this on your own and you need some time away from her to give yourself time to recover. She inflicted some nasty injuries on you and it could keep getting worse. There is nothing you did to give her reason to do this, and you deserve someone who loves and respects you and deserving of your love.
Please see a counsellor. *hugs*