" Lovely & So Very True " !!

WHATS GOING ON DEAR ?

ARE YOU FEELING LIKE YOUR GIVING TO MUCH AND NOT GETTING ENOUGH BACK ?
SOME PEOPLE DONT EXPECT KINDNESS FROM PEOPLE LIKE YOU GIVE
SOME PEOPLE DONT WANT IT EITHER.
SOME PEOPLE HAVE BEEN HURT MANY DIFFERENT WAYS AND JUST DONT KNOW HOW TO EXCEPT IT
LOTS OF DIFFERENT REASONS FOR WHY PEOPLE RESPOND THE WAYS THEY DO...

BUT YES.... IT IS ALWAYS WISE TO GIVE KINDNESS TO THOSE WHO APPRECIATE IT BUT NOT ALWAYS DO WE KNOW UNTIL WE GIVE IF THEY ARE GOING TO UNDERSTAND...
IF WE ALWAYS TRY NOT TO EXPECT ANYTHING BACK AND GIVE FROM THE HEART ... WE NEVER FAIL AT BEING WHO WE ARE...

I THINK THAT EVERYONE IS WORTHY OF OUR KINDNESS. I THINK WE NEED TO FIGURE OUT IF THEY REALLY WANT HELP AND IF SO, IF WE ARE CAPABLE OF GIVING THEM WHAT THEY NEED FROM US DUE TO OUR OWN ISSUES. SOMETIMES PERSONALITIES JUST DONT BLEND WELL. AS EACH PERSON YOU MEET WILL BE DIFFERENT, SO WILL BE THEIR NEED.

WE SHOULD BE ABLE TO TELL SOMEONE HONESTLY IF WE CANNOT HELP THEM WITH THEIR PARTICULAR BURDEN, AND IN RETURN EXPECT TO BE TREATED HONESTLY AND OPENLY AND WITHOUT MALICE.

THERE ARE PLENTY OF OTHER VERY GOOD PEOPLE ON HERE FOR THEM TO REACH OUT TO.

I agree nanasgot8....We must do what feels right for us. If the other person is not accepting or shuns us, at least we tried. We may not be able to help every person but we can always show kindness....whether it is returned or not.

I Agree!

Yes it is true that we are not the judge to see who should get our kindness.... 40 years in the Fire Dept taught me not everyone appreciates what we do... In 40 years I can remember only 5 or 6 "Thank You's". Now as a Minister I try to help people on a day to day very personal basis, and I can still say, most take it for granted. But everyone deserves our kindness whether we get a pat on the back or not... we'll get our pat much later from He who watches!!