Mentioned that I try and find a boyfriend online recently in a group post like this
The group specifically focuses on men that like older and or younger men
Tried being as honest as possible saying I prefer a simple five yr or less difference, but that I've been more open minded in my 30s. I was a little open minded in my 20s and more so these past handful of yrs
Now I said ten years either way sounds legit (not in those exact words)
but will consider (at least) friendship twenty yrs either way
I know the age of consent laws and don't think that people even talk about such things
Meanwhile I've spent 99% of my life being single
and a lot of me believes if that wasn't so I wouldn't have such a debilitating illness