A Child Abuse Survivors Group Community Group
We survived child abuse, but the pain still remains and so do the other effects which can last a lifetime. We are often unable to find adequate help, and we are seeking answers that can help us understand what happened so that we can go on to lead normal lives. (Please note that this is a group for child abuse survivors only. If you are a professional in the mental health...
With my bf, telling what to say when to say, goes through my mobile every day, how i should act, everything is under microscope.
Look at the following with an honest heart and eyes.
Have you ever given him reason to doubt you?
Has he ever experienced another who gave him one or more reasons to doubt them?
If the answer is yes to either, he is acting on a learned response.
Now you must decide whether you have the courage to talk it out and resolve the behaviors, or let him know that you won't be part of his reality of it.
Anything less on either point, means you have to compromise yourself to some degree, to keep this "Boyfriend.