A Child Abuse Survivors Group Community Group
We survived child abuse, but the pain still remains and so do the other effects which can last a lifetime. We are often unable to find adequate help, and we are seeking answers that can help us understand what happened so that we can go on to lead normal lives. (Please note that this is a group for child abuse survivors only. If you are a professional in the mental health...
He seems to think his victims deserved some of it because they were naive enough to get in the car with him. People like that always find a way to blame somebody other than themselves.
For myself, it's only triggered anger. That could be due to the gender difference between me and the victims. I get more disturbed by hearing about abductions of little boys...having been under the thumb of psychos in my youth. I've been left with a deep and intense hatred of bullies and people who abuse little kids. In fact I hate cowards in general...wife beaters, rapists, child abusers, animal abusers...to me they're nothing but filth, and they can keep their phony excuses.
I am angry because what I hear in the news is the same old story over again, a story not dissimilar from my own and that of others who faced years of horror at the hands of our abusers. There were reports to the police over the years from neighbors of Ariel Castro, but the police have concocted all kinds of elaborate excuses for why they did nothing in response to the phone calls. It's sickening. When it comes to horrific abuse, the police are useless in stopping it. In San Diego where I live, the police themselves commit as many crimes as the criminals they are supposed to be stopping from committing crimes. Several officers here have been convicted for child molestation and other sex crimes. Police officers are too busy forming alliances with the criminals while ignoring the pleas for help from victims. Again, it's sickening.
So many children are being abused, it goes on and on. I try not to think too much about it. There's also the spousal abuse and animal abuse. I find that all I want to do is work in my garden and not think about the rest of the world.
i got so angry i left the area i couldnt believe what i was hearing. that is the same shit people throw into my face about my parents like i expected it to happen, oh thats how parents are, etc.