i was trying to be anonymous here, because i was scared that if my H checked my computer and found this site, he would be mondo mad at me for airing our crap in public. but ya know what? i dont care!! yeah, he will be mad, but i didnt start this, he did! and so i am proud to add a pic to my profile too! when i get even braver, i will actually direct him to this site, as everyone has been so helpful.