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Hi everyone. Warning: A male is writing this post. I have an irrelevant sense of humor. As a rape victim myself, I take this topic very seriously.  I just wanted to identify my gender as a courtesy.  I have noticed that some are uncomfortable with me on the site.  It is not my intention to bother anyone, in any way.  It is my intention to make friends, and talk to people that will understand.  I find it hard to explain that being one myself, I HATE men.  I can not stand to be around them, or be touched by them.  Having said this, I will understand if some of you close your sites to me. A site like this should be a safe haven, not a place to worry about.  I do understand why men are not liked or trusted.  They are my own gender, but generally haven't done my many favors.  I would ask for a chance to be a friend of the group. Widower1.

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ladybuglover369
ladybuglover369

Of course the group should not be closed to you. I know why you would feel that way though... some victims cannot get it out of their heads that all men are bad. They aren\'t. I hope that others see the generous spirit in you and the willing friend, and that they see you for who you are, and not as a monster, because you are one of the nicest people I know.
JOYHOLY
JOYHOLY

HELLO, HOPE YOU ARE FEELING BETTER, DON\'T WORRY ABOUT SPEAKING OUT, IT HAPPEND, AND IF IT HELPS YOU TO SHARE THERE IS NOTHING WRONG, MANY OF US THAT HAVE KNOWN ABUSE WILL BE HERE FOR YOU, THERE IS A GROUP ABOUT ABUSE AND YOU CAN JOIN, AND IF YOU WANT TO SHARE ,WE WILL LISTEN, DON\'T LISTEN TO PEOPLE WHO HAVE NO LOVE , YOU SUFFFERED A TERRIBLE ACT OF ABUSE, AND NOW ITS COMING BACK, YOUR FEELING HATE FOR MAN IS UNDERSTANDBLE, IN TIME YOU WILL HEAL AND FORGIVE, I AM HERE IF YOU NEED ME, LOVING HUGS LUCY***