Read between The Lines

Ever wonder why that fat or ugly guy has a hot chick? Ever wonder why that chick who makes more money than you won't date you? Simple, guys are not greedy pigs by nature but women REALLY ARE!!! A woman will go for the guy who makes as much or more than her because the man has more to offer her than she is willing to offer in return.I got involved with a woman who went back to school to improve way of life (so she told me). I found out later it was was just bait on the end of a hook. She turned out to be a welfare bum. Nothing more than a leach. ZERO AMBITION!!! So like any smart guy would do, I kicked her to the curb as fast as I could.......To Late! The woman who could not have anymore kids was now pregnant. To get to the point I am trying to make, make damn sure she is employed and likes her job. If she works at a minimum wage job or jumps from job to job, no matter what she looks like, no matter how good the sex is.....RUN LIKE HELL!!!!!Don't get me wrong, I love my son very much but I would have preferred to have him with someone I love. Not because I got trapped!

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Hey I am sorry that you are having to go through all of this. However, you shouldn\'t generalize people. All women are not that way and all people who are out of work or have problems switching jobs aren\'t free loaders. I also am very glad you love your son and want to fight for him, you are doing the responsible thing. You mad a choice though to have sex with him mother. You couldn\'t have been trapped if you hadn\'t done that. I guess the best choice to make is to make sure you really know that person first. You can\'t be trapped if you really know that person first. I was engaged to a guy who out of 7 years bought me a gift twice. I didn\'t mind really, a card or a letter would have been nice though. I bought him presents for every birthday and for Christmas every year, I did this because I wanted to. When you do something for somebody, I wouldn\'t do it unless you expect nothing in return from that person and then you can never be let down. Then when they do something for you, it will always be a wonderful thing, no matter what it is. I could generalize all men based on my ex but I don\'t because I know there are a lot of good men out there in the world. See, i\'m not working right now. I am however going through some major health problems, non pms, and I am still doing what I have to do, to try and make things work out. I am moving by myself, I pay my own bills and expect nothing from others, in fact I have turned down help and money because I want to know that I did this with just me and the help I got from God. So, see, all women aren\'t leaches. :) I can see and understand you are hurt and angry and can empathize with you so I don\'t take the \"Bad Women!\" comments personally but you really should know, there are decent and good people out in this world, that you can trust and they don\'t all just use people. Best of wishes and I\'ll be praying you are strong through all you have ahead of you. Hugs, Julia
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oh also one other comment on your journal entry, The reason some of those people are with the person that they are with is because they love what\'s in that person\'s heart. It\'s not always about the physical appearance to everybody. Sure people like to date an attractive person but it\'s not always the most important thing to everyone. Looks fade over time, the heart can get more loving and beautiful though. Don\'t get me wrong, there are people that date people based on their bank accounts but not everyone who is less than beautiful by the world\'s standards has that person that is attractive because of money. I would rather choose someone with a beautiful heart over a person that was simply wealthy or Good looking any day and I\'m not the only person that thinks that way.