I screwed up....again

i messed up big, i got $20 out of ATM and wasn't thinking that we could not afford it. wife checked the ballance online, saw that i took it out and freaked. sent me a text saying "Don't spend a dime...or else don't come home. Sorry doesn't cut it". I spent $10 b4 i relized that i shouldn't have even taken the money out. I really do not know what to do! we r already having enough financial problems...FUCK

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bcas1971
bcas1971

Spent 10 minutes on phone with wife, boy she is PISSED, told me the bank called, said I left my ATM card in the machine. She said \'find somewhere to sleep to night and don\'t come home\' then hung up on me.
flutterbyfly
flutterbyfly

Wow. She does sound upset. Sounds like it may be an ongoing problem and she is just fed up. Any way you can borrow $10 and return the $20 to her? Talk to her when she\'s calmed down and ready to listen. Ask her if you all can come up with a way to handle situations like this when you want/need money. That will show her you care about it and are trying. Otherwise, just gotta hang in there til she\'s calmed down.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Maybe it is time for an allowance. I was on that system and it worked ok for me. I only spent the cash I had, so I had to really watch the pennies. Now I have the whole house budget and so far it is working.

Good luck and hang in there... yeah and start collecting cans!
deleted_user
deleted_user

I have had to do this with my husband it was tough at 1st now its natural hey catch me up with whats going on with u