Break-ups

Breakups suck. The breakup of a rebound relationship sucks even worse because you start to believe there's something wrong with your character not your choices. 
I would consider myself a "relationship-type" person. I am a better me when I am committed to someone. But the problem with being attracted to monogamy, is that you sometimes find people who are also attracted to monogamy and no necessarily to you. And those string of relationships end, it leads to "what's wrong with me" instead of "what's wrong with that relationship" or "what mistake in choosing do I keep repeating"? 
The sad part is, I can't distinguish the love feelings from the just being comfortable feelings anymore. All I know, is that I liked it and now I feel naked without the comforts of a relationship. 
That's not healthy. 
So here I go, on my journey to a better me. This journey includes being confidant standing on my own two feet.

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GiannaMarie
GiannaMarie

I know how you feel. I have been single for quite some time I am doing all I can to make myself healthy and being the best me. Most of the time im fine being single and then out of know where it hits me. I don\'t like the feeling of being alone.
KLove87
KLove87

Right. I\'m trying not to be afraid of being alone or more secure with myself because otherwise I will run to the next available thing which are usually unhealthy relationships