To me the hardest part of losing my husband has been the change. Not just having him here with us anymore, but everything from his shopping and cooking to just having him sitting around in his favorite chair. Today it is 5 months since we lost him. I cant handle this change. I hate it. The hardest for me is being around other couples, even if its my sister and her husband. It KILLS ME!!!!!!!!. My husbands best friend called me yesterday and has invited me to his wifes birthday party this Saturday. A part of me wants to go but the other half knows how hard it is going to be to walk in by myself with out Danny. I dont know if I can handle seeing everyone together and me standing there alone. I know soon my kids will be out on there own and I will be all alone. I dont have any close girlfirends. And my family, thats another story. I was just wondering how everyone else is dealing wtih all the changes in your lives and if you have any advice for me I would really appreciate it. I am very lonely without my Danny here and I feel more lost each day. Sharon
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