I am 45 years old and I have a somewhat unique story. My husband and I were married in 1984. My husband and I would have been married 24 years this year, but we divorced in 2006. I feel like I went through the grieving process that year. I lost him due to a number of things. He was at the time a recovering alcoholic and he had been disloyal to me. He could not get rid of the girlfriend. Well a year ago this time of year, he finally left the other woman. Let me tell you a little about the other woman. She is bipolar and she was constantly stalking me, my kids, and my husband whfom she finally got in 2006. My husband was in a very controlling unhealthy relationship with this woman. He started getting migraines when he was with this woman. They broke up this past may when she accused him of abusing her and he spent a night in jail. My husband in the 21 years we were together never laid one finger on me. Well he sought help. He would have been sober this April 6 years, and he has gotten some counseling. He finally turned his life around, and we started seeing one another again this past august. Our relationship was perfect but he suffered from migraines. He would get a migraine a couple times a week. We alway did get along very well. He seemed to have changed so much. He actually reconnected with his family in such a beautiful way. We sure fell back in love very quickly. But this woman continued to harass him and me as well. On Feb. 22 08 he took his own life. He left a note telling me he could not endure the pain from the migraines anymore. This woman has continued to harass me and now she is contacting other family members as well. It is just sickening. Disgusting. She even goes to his grave and leaves stuff there. I cannot even go to his grave, it is too painful So my story is not over. This woman is an unbelievable nut case and I really don\'t know what to do. I sometimes do not know what to do with this situation. I feel like I can\'t even grieve him. Oh yeah, this brings me to my self pity. Not only do I have to deal with this woman, loosing my husband, but loosing him once again, but this time it is forever.
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