Hi I just joined this group because I just finished reading the book "Women Who Love Too Much" I have always felt that I have put more than my part in all my relationships but I never realized it was because I was trying to control someone to make ME happy when the only person who should make me happy is myself! I have been in a 10 year relationship that has had many ups and downs, maybe more downs that I would like. It wasn't until we became engaged that I realized how he had always taken me for granted... I was so busy trying to resolve his life or be the perfect girlfriend that I got lost in the process. I decided to take a break from our relationship and call off the engagement. It has been the hardest thing to do but I know in the end we will both benefit from the result. Being a women who loves too much something like deciding to take a break takes so much out of you emotionally because your whole life is based on the other person. I want to recover not only to hopefully salvage my relationship but to be happy and accept myself. I hope to meet new friends here and to guide eachother to full recovery.
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