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WHEN BEING IN LOVE, MEANS BEING IN PAIN... This group is to help women through the journey of realizing they can love themselves. To help realize that they are capable of having a happy, healthy, whole relationship and break the cycle of abuse and heartache from loving emotionally unavailable men.

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deleted_user
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This is only a brief message. I am experiencing difficulties again. I only have a few days left of him on the same mode of transport to work. He has drawn me in, pushed me away, drawn me in again and thrown me all over the place in the space of a week. I am moving very soon and this feels that it is reaching another crescendo but I need to make the final break. He says he doesn't want me 'gone for good". I need to go. I need to start another life. I need to make the break but he is messing with my head all over again. Please think of me. I am sorry to have to put this message up once again but I don't have very long in this town and this is a crucial time for me. He is so confusing. There/not there. Declaring lifelong love and then emotionally disappearing. I am so very tired and my life has been taken over by this for too long. xxxx Edith
deleted_user
deleted_user
Edith you only have a few days to go and you know EXACTLY what he is doing!!! Give yourself a kick up the backside and hold your head high! His words mean NOTHING. You are SUPPLY....nothing more. He wants you there when HE wants you but nothing more...EVER. This much you know. Do not allow him to mess with your head any more. He has done enough damage don't you think?? He can only do what you allow him to do. You have suffered enough at the hands of this monster. You have so much to look forward to. Get packing and NEVER look back!! Message me if you need to chat. XXX
deleted_user
deleted_user
This thing of declaring lifelong love and then not being there is just so hard. You don't understand unless you have been through it. You will make it through this time. It feels so good when you get to the other side.
lassie1958
lassie1958
Actions speak so much louder than words......it's all just WORDS, Edith.....and when you are stronger, you KNOW that is true...it is just that he has broken you down again - WITH HIS WORDS - and you are feeling weak.

He is all talk!!!!!

Be strong....not long now until you CAN break free!
Blueshoes2
Blueshoes2
edith, are you leaving your husband, or are you moving with your husband? Is the N leaving his wife or just playing games with you? I guess you know the answer is always NO Contact...can't you tell him that you don't want to see him if you run across him in trasit?
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