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My hubby and I just had a minor argument. So he calls me from our local pub hangout and tells me his feelings. I am still working and everyone is late due to the poor driving conditions....anyways I think it is so funny that my hubby has chosen to go to the pub for a couple of drinks. If I ever did that he would have major major issues. I have no problem with him being there because it is his chance to cool down instead of arguing. He would most likely say that it is more risky for a woman to drink alone at a bar and no risk is posed for a man. Maybe it is true but I still think it is a total contradiction. What do you think? Any other male- female contradictions that you have experienced?
blooming19
blooming19
my husband works alot of weekends and when he is off work he expects me to be at home to spend time with him instead of spending my time with friends but when one of his friends calls he's out the door without even thinking about it, it drives me crazy.
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It is funny how tha works
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I've seen it a lot with my female friends having a double standard with their husbands. They can say any rude thing to their husbands, but they are hyper sensitive to their husband not stroking their ego and telling them their skinny and beautiful all the time.

The double standard goes both ways.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hmmm guess I'm lucky that way...my husband has never told me what to do...and even if he did I';d tell him to go pound salt...lol...I have this saying "what's good for the goose is good for the gander"...there is no room for double standards in any relationship...nobody own anyone...all basically what it comes down to is their own insecurity and trust issues.
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a man sleeps with several women in a short space of time and gets a pat on the back... he's a stud, just sowing his oats.... a woman has sex with more than one man over a short space of time... or sometimes just one man on a casual date... and do i need to say what she is called..............its definately not something equivalent to a stud.
deleted_user
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so when my hubby and i first got married (almsot two years now) he said that he didnt like the idea of us gong to bed at different times. however, i like going to bed earlier than he and it always caused issues as i would want my sleep. so now that i am pregnant, the times are even worse and bec he is up playing his video games its okay for us to go to bed seperatley. wtf? i mean, if i want to its a nono, but bec his friend stays up late and they can play online games together, its no big deal.

uuuggghhhh
its like the slut thing...men can sleep wtih however many they want, women do it and we are sluts...i hate it
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