Here goes. I am 34 and have two kids. Well I had affair and now husband and I are divorced. The man who I had affair with also getting divorced and we have been together since April but tough bc of my kids and his wife (found out sfter they separated) pregnant! I know half of u hate me already but I am looking for advice, not criticism. Anyway about a week and a half ago he wakes, kisses me and says he loves me and leaves my apartment. he has contacted me and always texts to see what I am doing but have not seen him in a week and a half. Told him i deserve and explanation and if he is not going to give me one DO NOT contact me. Well, he still does and says it is bc of my mean texts, which were a byproduct of hs ignoring me. Anyway I have tried and tried to distance and he still calls and texts and when I do not respond he calls and texts my best friend to see where I am! i don't gt it. He will not make time to see me but is oh so concerned where I am and "worried" when he cannot get in touch with me. Long and short my therapist thinks I have tremendous co-dependency issues. HOW DO I PULL THE PROVERBIAL NEEDLE OUT OF MY ARM!!!!! I want to be done with him but he is making it hard on me and when we talk he makes me feel guilty like I am the bitch and at fault. he is so manipulative but sounds so convincing when we talk. AGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!
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