1st welcome to the group this is a great place for support. but kick his sorry ass to the curb you are too young to live in that kind of hell.

Welcome huni , and no i dont have that problem huni i used to, and i agree you dont need that shit , although its easier said then done to end a relationship i do know that , if ya need me give me a shout xxx hugs Helen xxx

hey welcome! i think you should tell your man to grow up. he has responsibilities as a man. play time is over. i mean, you get days to play, but not ALL the time. sheesh! anyway, hope you like this group and fun!

Hi, have you tried talking to him and telling him how you feel? If so and he still wont change GET RID OF HIM!!! Life is to short to be unhappy, only you control your happiness. If he is not supportive and does not help out with the home or kid's what's the point to have him around. You can find someone that will be supportive and helpful and WANT to spend time with you. Good luck, let us know how your doing, Hugs kristy

Hey Sweetie, Welcome to the group! You are so young to be going through that crap...tell him to "shit or get off the pot"! If things don't change send him on his way! Take care.

That is the thing I will be the one doing the packing beacuse he supports me in every way but that is beacuse i take care of the kids and have no job. I first job I had to quit beacuse we didn't know at that time if we were getting his kids or not. Then I got health insurance from the state so I could do my tx. Beacues I could not go to work at a nurseing home and knowing I have hep C. If I forget something and I have an open sore and touch the wroung place they might get that. If that ever happend I could never live with myself again. I am pretty good at keeping it from my bf and his kids but if I am out of it one day and that happend well you know. I only have 2 in a half moths to go then I can get a job and then he might respect me a little more my pshy, says we went through the same thing with her husband but they got passed it. So that might be the same case, but maybe not too. I dont know I am so consfued I dont even know where I would go if I left my mom can't take me she has foster kids. I dont want to live with my real father not after what he did to me. I am scared i dont know what to do it turns my tummy when I think about it. Last night I got a real bad burn and my bf wouldn't give his son a bath before he ate. He was munching on candy when he walked through the door. My hand hurts. well i g2g got to take the kids to school.

welcome!!! i am new too!!! first of all i say kick him to the curb!!!! but you are kind of in a sticky situation. maybe you should talk to him about it. and if that doesn't work just leave. maybe you have a friends house you can stay at for a while until you can work. thats all i got but good luck!!! i am here if you ever want to talk!!!

I dont have any friend my friends are his friends and I will not move in with any of them beacuse at any time i would envtually see him again sorry for my spelling I seem to miss place my glasses. And I am blind as a bat with out them. I have tried to talk to him about it but every time I try to talk he pushes me away. "Why cant we just live our life's and not talk about stuff, Why cant you wing it" he says I told him beacuse I am not that kind of person and I can not hide my emotions like he can I am not a dam robot. Even when his mom talk's to him it goes in one ear and out the other. I wish I would have stayed with my ex.

Welcome to the group. The children are his only right? If that is the case and he can't appreciate you mothering his children he isn't worth your time. In addition to that he should be supporting you through your treatments not giving you drama. If you want to get out I suggest getting in touch with a woman only shelter in your area. They often can give you advice on what to do and how. With your health issues you really need to focus on taking care of yourself as much as possible. If he isn't willing to listen take steps to protect yourself mind, body and heart. Often times people from the past look good to us when we are going through things but there was a reason that old relationship didn't work out and that issues would probably still be on the table now. You are only 20 you have so much ahead of you, don't be discouraged I am sure that the best for you is yet to come.
Good Luck Be Strong and remember that we are all here to support you .

Thanks all for your help I am going to try to talk to him again tonight and ask him what he would do if I ever left and tell him how I feel about everything and if he starts to get angry I will leave I mean it this time. I tryed to left him twice before but i dont know I couldn't leave him with the kids. Yeah they are not mine I am going to ask him what other women will want to put their live on hold for him and his kids not alot of women will do this. Or put up with his shit. I dont know how his mother does it she has gone through all of this and still with her husband. I know it may seem that I am spilling my guts but I have no one else to talk to besides my psyh, and my bf's mom oh and my mother too. I need to talk to someone else besides them thanks for opening your ears, and eyes.

Thanks all for your help I am going to try to talk to him again tonight and ask him what he would do if I ever left and tell him how I feel about everything and if he starts to get angry I will leave I mean it this time. I tryed to left him twice before but i dont know I couldn't leave him with the kids. Yeah they are not mine I am going to ask him what other women will want to put their live on hold for him and his kids not alot of women will do this. Or put up with his shit. I dont know how his mother does it she has gone through all of this and still with her husband. I know it may seem that I am spilling my guts but I have no one else to talk to besides my psyh, and my bf's mom oh and my mother too. I need to talk to someone else besides them thanks for opening your ears, and eyes.