I have been married for 4 years, and I am in a sexless marriage. I know that some of you might suggest counseling, but I really would like some advice from you all. We have a wonderful relationship otherwise, he is the type that hugs me and tells me he loves me as it was from day 1 of our relationship. I have talked to him about how I feel, and then for a temporary amount of time he is sexual, but then we fall back into months and months of no sex. I know his testosterone level is low because he had gone for some medical tests, so that can explain this. However, apart from that, I feel like I just married my best friend. At night, I sometimes quietly have tears rolling down my eyes of the sadness that I feel, as I believe it is natural for a woman to feel wanted in a sexual way. I feel that if I left him, I would regret it, as everything else is great. My love for him is strong, that I want to accept him as he is, but it pains me to feel that I will go the rest of my life in this way. I am only 32 years old, and he is 35. If you saw us together in person, you would say we were this amazing couple, and by looking at him you would never think that he was this way. Its like I am living an ironic life, and I really don't know what to do or how to handle this anymore. Any thoughts?
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