It has now been almost 4 months since my husband left me,in that time he has moved into his flat got his whore over to live with him,he has got rid of his whore cuz she was too firey!!! last month he lost his job,he wanted us to be friends but i have to be honest i couldn,t be friends knowing he had planned to leave me to shack up with her,he had been talking to her online for almost a year,this from a man who claimed he loved me,no he didn,t if he did he would never have done this to me,to say i was devastated was an understatement! he hurt me,this from a man who had always told me i don,t like secret,s! yet he was being secretive by e-mailing the whore and talking about our private life to her for almost a year! well he finally got rid of her last week and today my son told me dads moving away to look for a job,he is also back in contact with his so called mate who i might add expected him to visit him over 150miles away just so his mate wouldn,t have to drive his older kid,s back to their mum,he used clive by telling him come down you,re always welcome,yeah right! finally my stbx realised he was being used by his so called mate! now my stbx has now contacted this so called mate and are talking about my stbx living down near them! i would be a total liar if i told you i don,t still care cuz i do, afterall i can,t just throw 25+yrs away but i know we can never ever be together again because the trust has gone,it,s sad but true,he used to tell me i don,t like you hiding things from me! i had no choice! that man all through our marriage had always kept me short with money! while he was in the army he was told to give me more money,the minute he got out of the army he dropped my housekeeping from Â£350.00 to Â£100.00 telling me,you get disability money that should be enough! if i had bothered to try and explain to him that i had debts because he kept me short for most of our marriage! but it was ok for him to blow Â£50 each night he goes out [he usually goes out every friday and saturday!]drinking! and betting! i had no choice but to get into debt! because i had to give up my job through ill health, i had to buy clothes food and pay the bill,s i had due to him being so tightfisted! i have the draft of our divorce and it does mention the fact that he gamble,s and drink,s,however our son has now started saying i think it would be bad if you expect any money from dad cuz he hasen,t got any money,i just dunno what to do right now,i am ill and i,m having problem,s just getting by each day,i,m tempted to just leave it and not go ahead with the divorce,but i know how good my husband is at manipulating people,i just dunno what else i can do,he has hurt me so much now i just don,t know what to do anymore now,i won,t ever get back with my husband i would welcome any advice right now cuz my head is all over the place help!!
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