Hello, My name is Soulwoman I am 44years old with 3 children, 21,16,13 I have been married for 17 years but been in a relationship with this man for 20 years. I am tired of being hurt by him Mentally due to drugs and going to Jail. It seems like a cycle that I am tired of dealing with. we have been separated a couple of times, but he always comes back. He thinks he did nothing wrong. I feel all alone sometimes but my children keeps me going. I recently loss my mother 10/07. And all I remember her telling me when she was alive "When are u ever going to be tired of going through this" I don't want to fight or argue all I want is a peace of mind. This man has issue and don't think he do and I am tired. I have been threw a lot with this man and he seem to think I am not suppose to be tired of dealing with the drama. Please someone give me some advise on how to deal with this situation. There is more to the story but to much to type or talk about. I just need to talk to someone that has or is in the same situation as me and how they deal this.
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