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Here is my dilemma my ah is on felony probation,for a hit and run while under the influence his terms of probation are no alcohol ,he has a suspended license etc etc,He has no $ as i refuse to buy booze yet,he gets loaded from time to time.I am not stupid i know he is stealing it from our local liqour store.Just this morning he said he wanted to go for a drive I said we only have a quarter tank till friday,my payday!,so he tells me "thats ok cuz I put a couple gallons in from the gas we have reserved for lawnmower chain saw etc,keep inmind the gas im referring too doesnt belong too us its our landlords......wow!!!!.....this drive must be really freakin important omg I know he went to the store to lift booze or who knows maybe im short a few bucks from my bill fold.Now if only his Probation officer could show up and breathalize him.I could call and inform him but,im not sure it would work he might tell my ah i called then im in danger.I am just sooooooooooooo sick of the bull shit I have to see the humor in this crap sometimes he said"I want to go for a spin in the car" like its a mazzarati or something!!! for christs sake its a 91 toyota...lol.....what relly cracks me up is i know his patterns for lame excuses to go to the store "i need tuums "..so I bought a big costco size bottle,"I need cigs well now I buy a carton on payday,"I need to get a soda thats when I said hey people in hell want ice water!!...we have very little cash......now he has resorted too taking the car for a spinmaybe I should just call the store owner and tell him to review his tapes IDK....wow heres a thought maybe he should just find work and buy his own or better yet stay sober this is starting to challenge my integrity my core belief system that I know is correct ........ive lost respect damn thats what happens when they treat you like an idiot.... go for a spin omg im still kinda laughing inside I guess I will go for a spin later just to get away from this lying shell of a man thanks for letting me ramble you guys help keep me anchored to the earth seriously!!!.
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