Does anyone else struggle keeping friends because of their alcoholic spouse? I know I get so consumed with his drinking and what he is doing that I miss out on normal relationships with people. My friends and family are sick of hearing about it, sick of seeing me struggle and hurt to the point that they just back off. So, not only do I deal with his crap, I'm losing my support group. What am I doing wrong and how is it fair that HIS problem cost me everything? If I just left him they would all come running back, but is that real friendship or I am being too sensitive?