I am almost done with my divorce which I do know is the right thing and have no regrets what so ever. He knows about the divorce, has been served papers and is about to get the final ones shortly. My issue is I have not talked over any details with him what so ever except the initial talk after I filed. Told him he either quits drinking or that's it. He chose drinking. But I have not discussed the asset split up although I told him I'm taking the house nor have we really discussed visitation for my daughter I left that up to the courts to decide. Am I wrong for not talking to him about it is my question? He is in the last stages of alcoholism and doesn't remember much even when he's sober. Now that its spring is hardly ever. Plus it is pointless to talk to him when he's drunk as we all know. He acts as though nothing has changed which is my fault I'm sure for not pushing the issue more. He will be told when the final papers are given to him that he has to vacate the premise on final judgement. I will get our home for two reasons first he defaulted by not responding to the divorce. Techinically giving up all his rights. Second he filed bankruptcy which by doing that gave up all his rights to the home. He still insists that I have to pay him half of what we bought the home for. I told him only the equity I have to pay half of (there is none the mortgage value is less than what we owe). He is so out of reality its scary. I am scared of confronting him although he has never been physical I thought it be best just to let the courts decide. I have a lawyer, does not nor can he afford one.
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