So I will start out saying I am a mother of 2 beautiful girls who are 5 years old and younger. I am married to their father who I love dearly. We got together when I was 18 and we had our first baby when I was 19. I have been having a lot of family problems for the past 6 years and I need help trying to figure out why and how can I change it? I will give you a back story My husband and I got together at 18 and married not even 6 mos later and then 4 mos later I had our first baby. I know it was wrong to do it that way and I have asked God to forgive me for it. So my husband and I fell in love fast, from that moment on we have not left each other's sides. His parents on the other hand have done everything to split us up. At first it was the baby is not your's she is just trying to pin a baby on you. It got worse where they have told the whole family I am evil. When our baby was born she did look exactly like her daddy so they never asked again for a dna test. Things kept on getting worse they would call me 24/7 asking if they could take her and I most of the time said no. Well I finally started working and they had to watch her then but when they watched her they told everyone I was off somewhere leaving my baby behind and that they raised her from a baby to 1 years old. I was working full time and the only time they had her was when I was working that is it. We moved away from them and then things started really getting out of control. MIL one time took her without permission and then didn't want to drive all the way back to give her to me. MIL also taught my daughter that I was not her mother and that I should be called by my real name only. For the past 6 years we have been going back and forth with them trying to make things work but it has gotten to the point where I know that things will never work unless he leaves me. I would never tell anyone they can't see my children but in this case it has come to that because his parents will say bad stuff that is not true about me in front of my kids. I don't care if his parents and family don't like me but don't show it to your own grand kids that is just wrong. I pretty much summed it up the best I could you should get the gist that I don't trust them anymore. My main problem is we always say we will never let them back in our lives and then I start to feel guilty about it and I decide to let them in only to be made a fool again. I need help or ideas of what I can do to not let that happen again. We plan on telling our oldest in a couple more years what has been going on not all of it just that his family doesn't like me and we have tried to get along and it never works out and let her decide if she wants to try to have a relationship with his family or not. Thanks to all who read this long story. I have tried my best to give you the shortest version. If anyone has anymore questions I will answer what I can and Thanks again. God Bless
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