Amy, my husband passed May 28 and I still feel as if a part of me is missing. I don't know if it will ever go away, but I am told that time will help. The first week after he passed, I would walk the house at night, crying and asking "where are you?' I wasnt asleep, I just knew that something was missing and I knew it was him. My heart goes out to you cause I know just exactly what you are feeling.

It has been over a year since I lost my husband and I still hurt everyday. I miss his voice, his touch, his arms around me but I know I will be with him again. Someday. It is hard but somehow with the help of my God, I get thru each day. Hope you find the peace you need to keep you strong. Lilly

It's omly been 3 1/2 weeks since my husband passed away. I know exactly what you are saying. What we are both feeling is part of grieving.

i was just writing a friend and think i should add my comment here as well. Amy, I have to believe that all of this will get easier. cognitively i know it is a process for us to go thru.

I am sad now, but i am not always going to be THIS sad--i just am right now. i'm a bit fragile--at times but i don't have any intention of staying this way.

i am definitely on the learning curve again. no expert status --i am a novice at daily life. since this has been a football weekend i find myself punting now more than ever.
someone took away my old play book--got to punt and write a new one. (i'm not even in the phase of figuring that out--just know that i will be eventually)xoxox i usually do not do sports anaolgies what's come over me? :)

It will fade - sadly.... On Thanksgiving day, I turned to my daughter and said, "Give this to your father." Then, quickly realized what I had said. Especially now during the holiday, we feel the loss.

Yeah I feel that way! I lost my boyfriend in Aug. and I never knew the pain of missing someone knowing you will never see them again. I am very lost! Half the time I can' t even concentrate! I wish so badly I could hold him again! It's enough to put a person in the looney bin!!!

I lost my fiancee 10 years ago... it will only fade and not consume as much of each and every day... but you will never forget, I still feel lost with no direction. in hindsite I would have went to counseling... give yourself some time to work through this on your own a few months... 3, 6, 9 months, then get a referal for counseling... Your friends will forget and think that you should move on.. but it doesn't happen that easy. It took me 6, 7 years to go on a first date again and I boo - hoo'd all the way there and back home again. It never goes away... but with time it will not be as painful as it is now.

I lost my fiancee 10 years ago... it will only fade and not consume as much of each and every day... but you will never forget, I still feel lost with no direction. in hindsite I would have went to counseling... give yourself some time to work through this on your own a few months... 3, 6, 9 months, then get a referal for counseling... Your friends will forget and think that you should move on.. but it doesn't happen that easy. It took me 6, 7 years to go on a first date again and I boo - hoo'd all the way there and back home again. It never goes away... but with time it will not be as painful as it is now.

It has been since 2004 for me losing my husband and I still expect him to call or walk through the door.. IT sucks.

it has been 9 months and i still feel so lost he was my soulmate i too know that i will see him again someday but it just dosent stop the hurt

It has been 30 days since I lost my partner and I am with you on this, I still think he will come walking out of the bedroom or call me on the phone. The house is so empty. With God's help we will all heal. But I ask too, will this feeling go away.