I dont post very much but I thought Id just inject a few of my thoughts on this approaching Christmas holiday (my second without my wife). Last year was awful as she passed in October and I as many of you could not even think of celebrating anything as I was devastated over my loss that occurred so close to the holidays. But this year is a little different and I attribute it to the many signs I have received over the course of the year that tells me she is still with me. Now, these signs are not earth-shakenly obvious to anyone but me..but I know when I get themand the more I ask her for them the more she sends my wayI have a theory that our loved ones are always ready to help us we just have to be open to the signs that they are allowed to send. By allowed I simply mean that I think there are some heavenly rules they most often have to be quite subtle in how they let only you know they are there But Im very sure that all of our departed loved ones are contacting us daily were a part of their heavenThey still love us very much and want to be a part of our livesSo look for their signs telling only you that they are still with youbecause they areand they want you to be happy as that makes them happy too..So, enjoy your Christmas . Both of you
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