Is anyone else just plain angry at your spouse for dying? I am finding that more and more, I'm just pissed at him for passing away. So much was left undone and I'm not sure I can handle it all. It will be a year in August since his passing. I took care of all the immediate processes and paperwork needing to be done but now I'm left with just a lot of resentment about being alone to face the world. Don't suggest talking to family members. I have a son, d in law, a grandbaby who is one and a daughter and that's all the family I am left with. They have to deal with their own "recovery". I just know one thing, I'm slipping in a big way and can't recover until I resolve the anger. What's going to help?
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