Ive never been part of a support group before but I don't really know what else to do. I know there are people out there who are feeling the same pain as me. Im 45 yrs. old. and was married to my 46 yr. old husband for 28 years. We were high school sweethearts. He was my life. I woke up one month ago tomorrow on May 28th to find that he had passed away during the night in his sleep. Im not only devastated, scared, lost, and all of the other painful things we feel when we lose what I feel like was my life but I don't know how to heal what to do really how to mourn. My children feel their pain of losing their father but they don't understand that my pain is different. Im hoping that I have found a group here that has people who understand because they feel the same way. I feel dead inside and can only hope that it gets better. One minute I think ok Im going to make it and the next minute I don't think Im going to make it to the next minute.
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