Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
Many thanks to all who posted comemts on my last post.
This weekend I talked to my partner about her late hudband. I found that talking to her was the best thing that had hapened to me.I am now able to talk to her freely about him without feeling second best. A big step forward for me. I can't explain how it has made me feel to be able to bring this subject up with her and not feel threatened. I have enjoyed listening to her talk of him.
I thank all of you who have taken the time to post your comments and to let you know how gratfull I am. I feel like I have stepped over a huge stone and finally turned a corner. After this weekend I feel more in love with her and I feel more loved without these bags of doubt hanging over my head. Again many thanks. For those not quite sure what I am revering to look at my last post called how do I cope with how she feels. X x
This weekend I talked to my partner about her late hudband. I found that talking to her was the best thing that had hapened to me.I am now able to talk to her freely about him without feeling second best. A big step forward for me. I can't explain how it has made me feel to be able to bring this subject up with her and not feel threatened. I have enjoyed listening to her talk of him.
I thank all of you who have taken the time to post your comments and to let you know how gratfull I am. I feel like I have stepped over a huge stone and finally turned a corner. After this weekend I feel more in love with her and I feel more loved without these bags of doubt hanging over my head. Again many thanks. For those not quite sure what I am revering to look at my last post called how do I cope with how she feels. X x
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
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Today is my 25th birthday, to my somewhat lack of surprise I can see already no one really seems to care. I've always been the kinda person to make sure that everyone I Care about feels appreciated and knew somebody had their back. I can count 4 times this year when I Went out of my way to make sure a "friend" felt good on their birthday, especially if they got left hanging. Its early in the...
The best to both of you,
AJ