I received an email from my older son. He has to go away at the end of the month on business. They want me to help out with the children, but there is so much chaos in that household. I am not up to it. I think they forget that I am a new widow and I need to have peace and quiet right now. I used the excuse that it is too close to the birth of the baby. My other DIL is due on the 9th. I know that my other DIL would just ask the impossible from me. She has done it before. So, I am not going. Judith
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