We were put under a tropical storm watch just this evening. I'm really scared because John is not here to face it with me and let me know what all to do. I've lost my husband, my dad, and now my father in law. All the older men that I trust to help through things like this. I have 2 sons here and hope they can help me get ready. I have to look out for my kids, grandkids, and my mother and sister during this. Right now it's not supposed to be bad but I know how these things can change quickly. I've been through these things all my life but this time I'm scared because John's not here to help me!
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