My husband died only two months ago, and yet I am glad to say I am making progress, and adjusting. Lately I've actually been feeling strong, working on a project that will help me get back to work. Even enjoying friends and laughing. Feeling joy in the Lord. It's not denial or anything, it's help from above. However....when I run across a photo of him, it just does me in. It makes him so real again. It brings him back to life, but then I know he can't come back to life. It's so horribly sad. It just happened to me as I was looking for something on my computer and stumbled upon a really nice photo of him smiling and looking happy. And now I'm crying again. Anyone else go through this?
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