I am new to this support group. I lost my father in March of this year to cancer. It was not easy but yet I knew it was coming when he didn't want to do treatments anymore. Want I wasn't ready for was I lost my husband in June. He had been having numerous procedures to help with a back problem. He was unable to work due to this. I just got the autopsy report back Friday and I thought I would get some kind of closure started but it didn't help, I don't agree with what they said he died from but the bottom line is he died and I can't have him back. We were together 34 years. Married at 18 and 19. I feel like I am just existing right now. I don't want to talk or see anyone, yet that doesn't happen and sometimes I get upset. I know people are just trying to help. I don't really know what I am asking for right now does that make sense?
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