Can we as a group not having to resort to lash out on others? Even if some of things you heard felt offensive. By that I mean if you understood the other people was not intentionally to say something malicious or demeaning, it takes them effort to reach out.
I don't want to get into a situation where people not trying to support each other in fear of their comments being chided. They too are in deep grief just like you. It takes courage and empathy to offer something to others - even just a simple message of support.
This is a plea and not a call out. Maybe it is too. But anyway it should be brought up.
Im new to this group and Im just really trying to fill in my heart and somehwhat try to reach out and hear the thoughts of people who’s undergoing the same predicament. I am able to go through holidays and birthdays with his loss, Im currently almost on my third year of going through such important holidays and dates without him... I thought I can become a Pro and hope that as time passes on...
I visited the cemetery to place a Christmas grave covering on my husband's grave. His headstone was covered in snow and I couldn't even see his name. The flowers and the balloon I left on his anniversary were still there. I broke down like I haven't in so long and I'm not sure why. A song came on the radio when I returned to my car "Lovers touch". Ironic or a message from beyond????? I...