Can we as a group not having to resort to lash out on others? Even if some of things you heard felt offensive. By that I mean if you understood the other people was not intentionally to say something malicious or demeaning, it takes them effort to reach out.
I don't want to get into a situation where people not trying to support each other in fear of their comments being chided. They too are in deep grief just like you. It takes courage and empathy to offer something to others - even just a simple message of support.
This is a plea and not a call out. Maybe it is too. But anyway it should be brought up.
As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him; for He knows how we are formed, He remembers that we are dust.psalm 103:13-14
Almost everyone needs it, asks for it, gives it, but almost nobody takes it. What is it?