Today is the 9 yr anniversary of my husband's passing and I shall spend it alone. Can grieve as I want to with nobody telling me to just stop it, you are so annoying today, well if you want to cry today that's your choice but wouldn't be mine, you bring this on yourself, get over it already, why do you put yourself through this every year, you are crazy to still be grieving, trust me my friends and family tell me all of this every anniversary of his passing. Hence, I will take a long walk, reflect on my love for my husband, cherish the life we had and go on with life with nobody telling me how to feel, YOU do not know how I feel and count your blessings YOU don't!!!
I am back after a very long absence, so long that I had to start a new account. I was married for 36 years and I am widowed for 9 years. I didn't think it would ever happen, but nearly two years ago I met the love of my life, and we are engaged. He is also a widower, only 3 years into his journey. I'm happier than I've ever been in my life. I just want to say that it DOES happen, and it did for...