
Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.

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at last I have had a GOOD dream of my husband - always, these last years, he has sort of been around, but in a weird way and unavailable, or we have been having rows or this or that. But last night, in the dream, I was feeling terribly terribly sad about the years, in our fifties, which were such brilliant years - the richest years of our relationship - all round GOOD. I was in bed, in the dream, crying about these years and suddenly there was John, standing at the end of the bed looking down lovingly at me. He came and lay down beside me cuddling me protectively. Then suddenly the dream ended - I am crying still writing this.
I have almost been feeling that my husband has been cross with me about something or other as I havnt had a dream when he has been really really there with me, being the kind loving man he always was..
I wonder if any of you have had similar experiences, this has been incredibly important to me. During our thirties, we had terrible troubles following the birth of our third son, who died at that time and since my husbands death I have not been able to really forgive myself for this time.......so now, perhaps, I feel he has forgiven me a little, I do hope so....
I have almost been feeling that my husband has been cross with me about something or other as I havnt had a dream when he has been really really there with me, being the kind loving man he always was..
I wonder if any of you have had similar experiences, this has been incredibly important to me. During our thirties, we had terrible troubles following the birth of our third son, who died at that time and since my husbands death I have not been able to really forgive myself for this time.......so now, perhaps, I feel he has forgiven me a little, I do hope so....
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