Due to my husband's illness we had not been intimate in more than 4 years. Our marriage and love was not based on a physical relationship and never once did I seek any relationship outside of our marriage. Now, however, since he has been gone, I have a lot of feelings (physical needs) that are starting to arise. He has only be gone 1 month. I'm not in love or want to be in love with anyone, but some of my feelings are hard to put aside. I am not someone who has been premiscuous in my past. I have had 2 husbands, I was divorced from the 1st and then married my 2nd who just passed. I have only ever had relationships with them. I am not someone who thinks you need to "be in love" to have a physical relationship, but it helps if you have some form of friendship. I am at a crossroad here....don't want to do something stupid...don't want to get myself in a situation that I regret. Without becoming rude or inaapropriate here....just let us say that I very close human companionship and I want it now. This is not a rebound or I'm not looking for someone to replace my husband. I am talking simply about human/physical needs. Anyone else feeling these things? I know that we are all different and in different situations, but I'm sure that some of you have been in a similar situation and felt similar feelings. Any input would be appreciated.
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