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Group FounderBubblesDavey
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3. How have I believed that my life would be manageable if only others around me would do as I wanted? Explain. (pg.4 Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions)
Group FounderBubblesDavey
BubblesDavey
I absolutely believe that my way is the one and only right way to do things. This is a set up for constant displeasure with people and life. Why do I think my way is the best way? Because if, God forbid, I was wrong and my ways weren't the best ways -- perhaps I'd have to change my attitudes. That's why the slogan, "Bless them, change me" is so helpful.
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Wow, BubblesDavey, you hit the nail right on the head!! I always think that there are two ways of doing things. My way, and the wrong way! I constantly set such high standards that nobody could ever really attain them. I then get so frustrated because MY expectations weren't met.
Group FounderBubblesDavey
BubblesDavey
There IS a humorous side to this. Thank God my husband is so patient with me. For example: I know exactly how to load a dishwasher.
I know the EXACT route to take to get anywhere.
I get in trouble when I know my way to deal with life's problems is the only way. I had to learn the idea of options. Mine, his and others.
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