My last boyfriend of a year and a half played WOW. He ignored me, while I made him dinner, did his laundry, his homework... etc. I broke up with him and he quit playing, he realized what the game had done to us. I started seeing Prince Charming, fell madly in love, and he admitted being an EX WOW user. He had been clean for the 8 months we've been dating... so I thought. He's been hiding playing WOW for the last 6 months... and I don't understand why he would lie about it, or why he would even continue playing the game. This game cost him his college degree. 5 years and still not even an associates, his last relationship ended because of this game... he has no job, he just admitted to failing another semesters worth of classes and my question is this. Why is he willing to spend the time and effort gaining the gold and having three level 70s, if he doesn't have the effort to go to class, to go to the gym anymore, to do his laundry, to be honest and open in our relationship? WOW is hard work. It takes time and patience and effort... why does he spend all of his effort in his fantasy world, and let his real life fall apart around him? He's tall dark and handsome, smart as can be. Went from straight A's to failing simply because he didn't go to class; he was too busy playing. He's clocked in 180 days on ONE CHARACTER ALONE over the last 2 years. I don't know how to help him... can I help him?
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