From the start I knew my husband liked video games, never once did I have a problem with it, I like games myself. He started playing FFXI back in 2003 he was in Navy back then so when he went out to see he didnt have it but when he would get back he was ALWAYS on it. I thought about it and never wanted to be a nagging wife so I made a char and started to play, thought it would be something we can do togeather. However I can turn it off...he cant. He is out of Navy now. Works mon-fri. Before work he is on it...when he gets home at 12am he is on it till 3-4am. Sat and Sun he is on it 24/7, when it comes to sex he is like "ok let me finsh this real fast and ill go afk so we can do it" we do it...he get back on game...there has been times when he has even passed up sex altogether. We do not have a social like...he has LS events on the game many days out of the week...so if I say "hey lets go to dinner...hey lets watch a movie" he is like "cant I have a ls event"...I have rented him movies from Block buster many times and they go unwatched cause he cant take time out to watch them, when he goes to the bathroom..instead of bringing the newspaper in there he has his psp/nin.ds. I tell him all the time I think he has a issue, he is like its just his hobby, and I never want to stop him from doing something he loves, but idk I just feel like its out of hand and feel alone. He met a woman on this game too...well they just talked on phone and I was so hurt because he was saying he was with her and stuff so we seperated (thats a whole other story though). Please just tell me if im being stupid or if you all think he might really have a issue with this. Thanks.
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