this is what happened between my husband and I this evening...
I have been doing great as far as my bp goes. I've been level, I am not manic or depressed, nothing, I am doing fine. We start talking about how i should consider getting a job.
I mentioned how it would be nice to have some pocket money. Know what he does? Goes off on me saying 'no that would be for the budget, Dawn'. Like I have no right to my own money.
I am on social security disability and he already has control of that. I don't feel that if he is going to require me to work that it is ok for him to dictate what i spend it on. I have never had a problem with money. I can balance a check book just fine, but he is a control freak and has to have control of everything.
His mentality towards me is that I am a person that is unreasonable and I can't be dependable enough to make good choices. Right now i DESPISE him more than anyone knows.