I have a set of 11 month old twin girls, one is very needy and needs me every second. She cries when i walk past her and dont pick her up, she sleeps in a pack and play by my bed. All she wants is to be held and entertained, while the other twin god love her will play alone, watch tv and demands very little of me. I feel so guilty because it seems like i get no real quality time with her, because i am dealing with her sister. I hate her whining it is so annoying, so i pick her up just to make her stop. I feel like i am in a real mess. So do i ignore her whining or what? She just seems to sap any and all energy out of me.
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