Twins, Triplets & More Support Group
Triplets & More","This community connects people seeking information and experiences about multiple births. Different names for multiple birth are used, depending on the actual multiple. Common multiples are two and three, known as twins and triplets respectively. Share your thoughts and find whatever support you need."
So I am pretty much a natural birth freak. I don't think people shouldn't have drugs during labor in fact if that is what they want than I am all for it. I also don't think people should be induced without medical reason, though I don't talk anyone out of it if that is what they want.
With that being said the doctors at the hospital want me induced at 38 weeks if I haven't had them by than. The doctors also want me to have an epidural in case the second twin is breeched.
I read that if you have an epidural you are more likely to be cut (OUCH) So Here is what I want, tell me if you see any reason why if all goes well I cannot have these:
I want to remain as active as possible during the first stages of my labor.
I want Ricky to be in the room with me unless somethings goes wrong at which point he will be taken out by Ryan. He will also be taken out for the second stage of labor and brought back in after the babies are born.
I want to avoid all drugs if possible.
I wish to avoid high forceps if possible, if one of the babies are stuck and cannot come down and are becoming distressed I would prefer a c-section. (do remember I will have no epidural so the high forceps will HURT LIKE HELL)
I want as much skin to skin contact with my babies before they are taken away, I would also like to breastfeed them at this point
If the second is not distressed and the heart rate is fine than I would like to wait up for the twin to be born naturally, up to an hour wait unless there is a medical reason why the twin mustn't wait.
If the twins need medical attention I would prefer that I express feed them if breastfeeding isn't possible.
ummmm I think that is it really. I really don't mind if medical students are there in fact they are welcome and can be as active in my labor, and the care of my babies as well as myself, as the doctors will let them. I really would prefer not the be cut, I had a almost 9lb baby with no tearing....I don't want to be cut for babies that will likely be way less.
Obviously if there are medical reasons why I need to be induced I shall look at the midwife and tell her "what are you waiting for? stick that paddle pop (fishing hook if it isn't the stick they will use) in me and break em" I need a c-section sure GAB THAT NEEDLE IN MY BACK! but i really would rather have a natural birth if I can without endangering me little puppies.
With that being said the doctors at the hospital want me induced at 38 weeks if I haven't had them by than. The doctors also want me to have an epidural in case the second twin is breeched.
I read that if you have an epidural you are more likely to be cut (OUCH) So Here is what I want, tell me if you see any reason why if all goes well I cannot have these:
I want to remain as active as possible during the first stages of my labor.
I want Ricky to be in the room with me unless somethings goes wrong at which point he will be taken out by Ryan. He will also be taken out for the second stage of labor and brought back in after the babies are born.
I want to avoid all drugs if possible.
I wish to avoid high forceps if possible, if one of the babies are stuck and cannot come down and are becoming distressed I would prefer a c-section. (do remember I will have no epidural so the high forceps will HURT LIKE HELL)
I want as much skin to skin contact with my babies before they are taken away, I would also like to breastfeed them at this point
If the second is not distressed and the heart rate is fine than I would like to wait up for the twin to be born naturally, up to an hour wait unless there is a medical reason why the twin mustn't wait.
If the twins need medical attention I would prefer that I express feed them if breastfeeding isn't possible.
ummmm I think that is it really. I really don't mind if medical students are there in fact they are welcome and can be as active in my labor, and the care of my babies as well as myself, as the doctors will let them. I really would prefer not the be cut, I had a almost 9lb baby with no tearing....I don't want to be cut for babies that will likely be way less.
Obviously if there are medical reasons why I need to be induced I shall look at the midwife and tell her "what are you waiting for? stick that paddle pop (fishing hook if it isn't the stick they will use) in me and break em" I need a c-section sure GAB THAT NEEDLE IN MY BACK! but i really would rather have a natural birth if I can without endangering me little puppies.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Just be prepared for anything on that day.
Take care