Hello everyone I really need some help. My two little ones are 7 mons and I still can't seem to enjoy going out with them. I stress myself out making sure I have everything before we even leave the house. Then when we get somewhere (we were at the zoo yesterday) I am so tense I don't enjoy it. My DH said that my face looked like I was going to hurt someone because both of the kids were crying at the same time and I was getting their food ready to eat. There has been some occations where I'm okay then the others are like yesterday. It makes us fight the kids don't relax and it turns into the day from he**. After a day like that I just don't want to go anywhere with the kids. I know this is not fair to them and it is not their faults. Is there ways to make it go smoothly or am I just a mom wound to tightly. I need to get this under control for everyone involved. I know this not my burden but my gift but some days I just want to give it back.
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