i was sexually abused when i was younger..and have tons of issues with being touched. when my boyfriend and i are a very playful couple and we love to play fight and whatnot..however my boyfriend likes to play around be romantic and cute and hold me down..not trying to hurt me but to kiss me and hold me and if i begin to say stop (he thinks i'm playing around and whatnot) and he wont so i begin to freak out..crying shaking and my immediate thought is what had happened to me.. my boyfriend and i get quite frustrated because he wants to play around and i want to be able to get over this fear of being hurt again.. esp since i know he would never hurt me ever i just need some advice.. what have others done to get over this?
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