I was wondering if anyone would be brave and talk about why you pull your hair, and even if you know why you pull? I figure if we share are stories and had maybe a (small therapy session) we could relate a little more to others, because we all pull hair but we should talk about why or what triggers a pulling session for you personally. I starting pulling my eyelashes out when I was 18 now I am 24. It started with extreme stress with my job, life and mostly my then fiance. My soon to be husband (who is now my ex-husband) and I where high school sweet hearts for over two years and loved each other very much, but right before we got married he started to change a little and I didnt like it. But I figured it was pre wedding stress just I shrugged it off. Then right after we got married he turned into and complete jerk, he got really abusive and possesive, then the worst happened I got raped! (wow I never talk about this) and that was when my eyelash pull got really bad and now I cant stop. I hate this so much I am just starting to get into some real therapy so I can learn to heal after these things happened to me, I think that will really help. I am now happily marred with my second child on the way. But I still cant change the things that happeded to me, but I can learn to move on and heal, so I hope that is what I can do very soon. Please share your story so people can relate to you and make closer friends. Thank You
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